I know what you’re thinking Super heroes aren’t real. My kids tell me that all the time. They used to believe in Batman & Superman but now they know it’s only an actor on screen & such things aren’t real. So when I say be your own superhero am I asking you to believe in a person pretending to be something they’re not?…Well, kind of.
One way super heroes become real is when people believe in them. One reason why so many people flock to see the latest Superhero movie is because they want to be part of the fantasy that a person/superhero has the power to succeed & beat the odds, saves lives & save the day. It’s the Disney ‘feel-good’ factor many (secretly) hope would happen in their life.
Just like the writers at Marvel & DC Comics who had the imagination & vision to create Superman, Spiderman & Batman then write them into life, we too are just as capable of imagining what our own futures could be & creating our own ‘feel-good’ factors in our own lives.
Self made millionaire, David Geffen said “we are all a figment of our own imagination.” Put simply:- we can be whoever our imagination can create. At one time in our life, consciously or subconsciously we decided to be the person we are today.
We are the ones who are responsible for setting our goals & achieving the leap of faith to take our own aspirations seriously. When we op for Business Studies over our passion for the Sciences, job A because job B paid less or marry Mr Sensible instead of Mr Irresponsible to prevent the break out of World War 3 in the family we betray our true selves. In truth, what we go for in life usually stems from how we see ourselves & what we believe we can achieve, which in reality is different from what we really are & what we can actually achieve.
People who have succeeded in life whether financially or spiritually all started with the same basic tool kit. They didn’t have two heads to help them think better or extra arms and legs to work & run faster. We’re all born with the seeds we need to succeed. We all have our own supply of super powers – a vision for our future & a small belief we can do it that we need to nurture.
We all have a superhero inside us & it’s with us all the time. Unfortunately most people actively choose to ignore theirs:- I was coaching a lady who had achieved so much in her life, but now she was going through a terrible divorce, facing eviction & in debt. When she talked about her past achievements & where she was now, it was as if she was talking about two different people. She had a hundred & one excuses as to why the person she was in the past was no longer the person she was now. She accepted that her past & present self had the same name, but she refused to accept she was just as capable as the person she was twenty years ago. That person in her past was only dead because her belief in herself was at rock bottom… dead too. All she needed was to believe in an older wiser version of herself. She needed to focus on a new dream for her future & believe with the help of her super powers she could achieve it.
Just because you don’t use or acknowledge your superpowers doesn’t mean you don’t have them. We’re born with them & only WE can choose whether to use them or not.
Think back & ask yourself was there a time you saw a flash of your superhero. One time where you did something so amazing you shocked yourself. Many people get flashes of their greatness – their super powers, but because they do not believe in themselves they put it down to luck or a fluke. It’s up to us to find the tools to live up to the person we want to be & believe we have the power to shape our own destiny.
For every superhero story there’s always a villain. So who’s the villain in our story?
Ourselves! Usually accompanied by the fiendish twosome Modern Media & Popular Culture. Wherever there is self-doubt & uncertainty, feelings of wanting more or despair – negative thought patterns & the fiendish twosome are usually at the bottom of it.
Popular media & modern culture feeds your fears for the future & leads most of us to no real interest outside of being faithful consumers and buying our next feel good purchase. Nothing short of Kryptonite to your dreams it subconsciously limits you into believing you are not enough without superficial accessories & the attitude of judging yourselves by other people’s standards. Your superhero is waiting inside you for you to break free & be the person you truly know you can be. So take up the challenge & go past your fears, beat the odds & save the day.
Choose to live up to a personal commitment to living a truly amazing life where you’re the super hero of your own life & don’t believe the myth that superheroes are just for kids.